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Johnny - June 22

"Evildoers are trapped by their sinful talk, and so the innocent escape trouble. From the fruit of their lips people are filled with good things, and the work of their hands brings them reward." (12:13-14)

This devotional follows the concept of "speaking it into existence" and it really does make sense. I think it's something we all have to sort of confront at some point is the concept that our words have meaning. Especially in our friend group, we spend a lot of time making fun of each other, but not much time encouraging or pushing each other forward. That's not to say we don't support each other or really care, but sometimes words spoken mockingly can bite and have some venom behind them. I think it's perfectly normal for us to have the relationship we have now, but it is something to have on mind when we consider if we really are friends for life or friends through the necessity of church and consistent meetings. Of course, I believe that we have a strong bond that will only get stronger, but it'll take definite work to maintain and build upon, and this might be important to consider in this regard. It's so easy to spiral down in your spirits and emotions by speaking ill will and cursing others, and I know that I in particular need to watch what I say and even how I say things. I mean, there's just so many ways to hurt someone with your words, to use them as weapons. And while being quick with your tongue is boon at some times, at other times it is an anchor preventing any growth; in maturity, emotionally, and spiritually.
Sarcasm comes naturally but sometimes it is neither welcome nor accepted. Similarly, I know I can be dismissive at times, and passionately angry towards someone at another time. What I say during those times really affects the way I treat and consider others, and how they view me. It's definitely a work in progress, but I think the ultimate goal, especially this summer and in the school year, to really think about why I'm saying the things I say and how it affects me and others. The ultimate hope is to speak in love (regardless of how sappy that may sound) to those around me. Hopefully, I keep this in mind.

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